Is there any Solution for Ego Clash? What is the solution to an ego clash?
When egos are there, they do clash. There is no way out. When there is wisdom, you will rise above any small-minded attitude, bickering and judgements.
You judge people all the time, and if you turn back and look at your own judgements, I tell you, 80 to 90% of the time, they will be wrong. Sometimes people send some messages and before the other person gets it, they retract it. How many of you have done that? You type a message to send to someone, and something tells you that this is not okay and so you retract it. How many of you do this? This shows how poor your judgements are.
We create a huge cloud around what is not even close to truth, and it has happened to you so many times in the past. You hold grudges against people, you have concepts about people and you get yourself trapped into it. You must wake up from this. You know, if your time is good, your worst enemy behaves like a friend, and if your times are bad, your closest friend behaves like an enemy. So, your luck or time is totally responsible for your friends and enemies. Your karma is responsible for what you go through. So, you should take your mind away from judging others and bring it to yourself.
Often people who complain that others have a big ego, have a big ego themselves. Often those who complain others are rude, you will see somewhere inside, they are rude. You should reflect on yourself. See, you can’t correct others but others give you a chance to correct yourself.
Note – Its an excerpt of Sri Sri Ravishankar Guruji’s Art of Living satsang.
Learn to understand to take everything as sportive. But remember you should strive to win over next time by taking it sportive to work hard. In a coin both sides cannot be one side. When we get a coin we see both sides to make sure it is original. Ego or always a winner could be so you care for others. In the movie Sholay – in every occasion Amitabh Bachchan used to flick a coin and all the time he gets head so Dharmendra had to listen to him. But when he died the coin comes out. Dharmendra pick the coin and see one side then turn to the other side. There too same head. Then he turns it again and again and understood how he is protecting him and saving him risking his own life. Here tje good Ego I am the winner.