The Dashain Ashirwad Mantra chanted while putting the tika to the female member of the family is as below:
Om jayanti mangala kaali bhadra kali kapalini
durga kshyama shiva dhatri swaha swadha namostute
The Dashain Ashirwad Mantra chanted while putting the tika to the male member of the family is as below:
Ayur drone sute sriyem dasarathe, satruk ksheyam raghave
yaishoryem nahushe gatischa pawane manancha duryodhane
suryam shanta nave balam haldhare satyaschha kuntisute
bigyanam bidure bhawanu bhabatam kritischha narayane
om jayanti mangala kali mantra can pregnant women chant